Posting #71 – Jim’s Story

By:  Jim
Date:  04/27/2009

Dear RSOL of Virginia,

I am writing you to tell you my story and maybe ask for your help and guidance in this matter.

In 1993 I was found guilty of carnal knowledge (sex with my girlfriend). I was given 2 years probation, that was it. I had a clean and unblemished record until that charge. A family member, who no one got along with, turned us in to CPS. They got involved and I was arrested. No on tried to hide ANYTHING. We even went on television together to bring the issue to light. We stayed together for 8 years.

Yes, I probably should have used better judgment before we had sex. We have both become stronger people since the trial and we both lead different lives. After 17 years since the conviction, we are still very good friends.

These laws have made it impossible to keep a life that is not filled constantly with fear.

It started with 2 years of probation and being ordered to stay away from my girlfriend in to in 2003, I was threatened by a very vindictive State Trooper who did everything including beating the crap out of me if I did not comply. I was originally told to register for 10 years once a year and now it’s for my lifetime every 90 days.

I’ve talked to every lawyer I know but no one will take to time to talk to me about my case.

After 11 years my job in now in jeopardy, I am a ______ driver in ____________. When I first got my job my conviction wasn’t an issue. You know how rumors get started; people that don’t have all the facts of my story make an issue. I have been beat up several times, who’s going to save us? No one cares! I’ve endured so much, at times it’s overwhelming.

I guess I’m blessed to have a handful of friends and customers that know the whole story.

Back in 1993 before we went on television I thought of taking my own life. These thoughts are arising more often again.
How much more can a person take? I use to think we lived in the best country but now I think differently.

I wish you the very best of luck. If I can do anything to assist I will for all those that deserve a chance , no one needs to suffer like this for life.

Sincerely,
Jim

Update:

By: Jim
Date:  05/08/2009

RSOL of Virginia,

I was compelled to write to the State and Federal Legislators. I tried to voice my views not only for my case but others as well. We have a life sentence and it pains me.

I look into the future of my children suffering from the rebuttal of this struggle. Mistakes are made by everyone, right or wrong, just or unjust. We need to unite and bring real justice.

I am out of work now, don’t know where I’ll be next month or if I’ll even have a home.

Sincerely
Jim